I want to start out with this: I don't know that this book is entirely for me. That's fine. It was still an experience to get through, and I only really started realising what the structure of the book was doing when I explained my discomfort with the first two stories to a friend and was starting on describing the beginning of the first.
To my friend, I had said: "All of these people are abusive assholes. I don't know if the sister is going to be, since I'm not done. But the husband and the brother-in-law were atrocious and disgusting." As soon as I said that, it finally clicked what was being done and the kind of message that Han Kang had wanted to transmit. And it's because the key figure, the person whose interiority we often don't have and who we're being pushed to look at as strange... is Yeong-hye. She's central to every story, but we're only allowed to follow the people harming her.
I do want to say, however, that the first story used shock value that hadn't been choreographed or foreshadowed multiple times. This includes the utilisation of suicide (which I thought this was done well despite the lack of foreshadowing, especially for the situation it is in) and two instances of animal torture and abuse (the first of which felt like it came entirely out of nowhere and was deeply frustrating, and the second was much more mild than the former but still could be upsetting). The second story involved a lot of sexual behaviours that were entirely questionable, which mostly felt discomforting because we know what the character we're following is thinking and the kind of obsessive attitude he has taken towards to object of his sexual desires. It's uncomfortable because we know what kind of tricks he's using to get what he wants and why he's treating people the way he is, which really isn't positive.
The third story, though, is her sister. Her sister isn't shown to be a good person. She's going through all the 'what if' moments and wondering where she screwed up and if she could've done better for Yeong-hye. She realises that she caused some of Yeong-hye's problems through the control she's had over her, by wanting to lock her away... and recognises that she's in the wrong. She's not presented as good but as changing. (I also like that she realises the kind of control that women are under by their husbands and the societal pressure of having children. It's woven in the story well.)
